I realized one thing when had that «bad days» at work.
One day everything goes easily and without effort, another day you cannot even get up in the morning and literally forcing yourself doing at least something having no motivation at all. At the same time somebody next to you (let’s say colleague) has better mood and gets things done faster. You think: ok, they can – so do I. I will be strong, push myself, and, in the end of the day I am a strong woman, not some kind of pussy *strong strong*. Ok, for a while it goes well with this temporary forcing impulse, but very soon the same apathy covers mind again.
Then I’ve got the secret of these “easily doing everything” people.
That is weird, but when you know something — you think it is kind of obvious for everybody. That is why I didn’t really want to translate this article. To my mind, topics related to setting-up goals and self-motivation are discussed and described thousands of times and I will not tell anything new to people who is my age or older.
But when I communicate to graduates architects guys from my home town, I realize that most of them are really in a deep forest of frustration about what to do after final applauds of diploma comity and getting certificate. Because for people who kept their «background radar of opportunities» switched off for many years, any change of environment outside is very, very painful.